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We’re gay and rejected same-sex marriage — it was a protest
James and Matt had a civil partnership ceremony in 2017 as a protest (Picture: Andy Tyler Weddings, @andytylerweddings./Instagram) Two weeks after James Besanvalle moved from Sydney to London in March 2016, he made a match on a dating app that would …